What does 2023 have in store?
I feel confident that 2023 is the beginning of the end of the end of something. An ending that we’ve been in so long, that we’ve forgotten what it means for things not to end. Getting drained constantly, losing hope, but still doing what we want regardless. For some people, this is how we make sense of reality.
But in 2023, I feel sure that all of a sudden, new things will emerge that will shock us. Maybe the phases you were settled in, you’ve settled in now for good. If you’ve fallen off the tracks, maybe you’ve found yourself comfortable wandering. And it might surprise you that in your wandering, you found yourself right back to where you started, and everyone is calling you to hop back on.
I struggle to call 2023 the beginning of something, because things are still ending, falling apart, asking for your attention in grief and sorrow. To feel the sluggishness of time sit motionless inside your muscles and still feel yourself carsick on the conveyor belt.
When some things end while others begin, and there’s no clear-cut empty ground between, we find ourselves second guessing the speed we run ahead. And even when we want to mourn, we find the grass growing around and through our clothes, the cracks in houses, and spring pouring into our nostrils. I don’t have any prescription for this phenomenon. I think this year will ask us to be brave, to be silly, and to be grounded.
In 2022, we carried longer-term fractures with us and attempted to repair them. We also learned to let what’s broken stay broken. Can you identify where the compassion, forgiveness, and openness transpired?
I hope that we will love each other a lot in the new year. We are entering a new world, and I hope that we will remember that we can never replace the warmth of each other.
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horoscopes (read for your rising sign!)
aries:
reflection - In 2022, you had to face some of your trauma responses. You had to face fear and death, and the part of you that refuses to let go. In the same vein, you also received a lot. Your space may be overflowing. You are learning the passages of receiving and giving, birthing, and dying. You also got to experience dreams at night that left you tender and bursting in the morning. And after all that suspension, playing in the shadows, you are ready to just go for it.
preparations for 2023: Savor the energy you have. Savor the big ideas. Savor your courage. Savor sumptuous gifts coming your way, opportunities to feast, and to feel the world around you. Prepare for more internal work to come. Prepare to see sides of yourself that scare you. Get ready, you’re also entering an era of (even more) big changes in friendship and collective work. Some relationships may fall away this year for you to be able to understand yourself better. Summer romances this year are extra confusing.
taurus:
reflection - In 2022, you had to release some relationships and bonds. You had to reflect on your reflection and projections and build up more strength in yourself. You got to experience sweetness in friendship, and maybe even experiencing some dreams come true! You also got a taste of what a more grounded solitude can feel like for you.
preparations for 2023: savor solitude, retreats, the feeling of being free in your own space. Savor your own beauty and your body. Allow yourself indulgences and opportunities to experience your strength. Try to find every opportunity to dance. Prepare that you’re about to see who is a real friend and who isn’t. Prepare that even after getting your wildest dreams, the work continues. You’re beginning a transformation in your career/workplace. You may experience some setbacks in health, that allow your spiritual core to grow stronger. Some unsteady movement happens at home in the summer.
gemini:
reflection - you experienced some drainage in the realm of work, duties, the grind and went deep into the spiritual realm. You may have seen some new visions of your past and your heritage. You got to experience career highs, favor from authorities, and wild fun with friends and groups. You held a swirl of energy, both chaotic and generative, with you wherever you went, and now it’s time to figure where to place it down.
preparations for 2023: savor more fun with friends, bravery, and leadership in groups. Have fun going after your dreams. Savor solitude, nature retreats, giving yourself a massage. Prepare that you will need to work hard and face a slightly stricter and more difficult authority figure. You are beginning a whole new chapter of transformation in the realm of big ideas, underlying philosophies, and faith. You may have to experience some creative efforts wilting but clearing up space for you to engage and exchange more freely with other’s ideas. This summer, I could see a close relationship getting imbued with some misunderstandings, maybe some egos butting.
cancer:
reflection - you released space in creativity, romance, dating, and play to make way for collective movement, you got to experience an expanding of your world view and an anchoring of your beliefs, as well as some growth in career and positions in authority.
preparations for 2023: savor more opportunities to fight on a bigger stage and experience your risk-taking and capability to push yourself out of your comfort zone when it counts. Savor friend groups, friend dinners, trips into nature, and committing to each other. Prepare that your relationship to your faith or undergirding belief system may have to undergo some pressure or cleanup. You’re also beginning a new phase of understanding death, grief, and how we entangle ourselves with others, building on the lessons you’ve experienced about these themes the last two-three years. You may inevitably have to move or let go of some idea of home and family this year but will experience lots of growth in career. The summer may ask you to revisit your financial situation.
leo:
reflection - you released pain and buildup around the themes of home and family, as well as experiencing new shocking developments in work. you got to experience some sweetness but possible delusion in the space of intimacy and shared resources and dared to move on to bigger horizons with courage.
preparations for 2023: savor the possibilities of travel, adventure, new horizons in learning, especially where it requires you to strike out on your own path. Savor abundance in your career, spaces where you are provided for and providing. Prepare that you may be called this year to clean up your act in regard to others, whether you are in a codependent situation or are not allowing yourself to move on from a situation of betrayal or ending. You are beginning a new long transformative season in all types of relationships, so you may see some scary faces at times, which is all part of allowing you to understand what filters you have on. You may inevitably face some loss in your locality, whether it be feeling uneasy around siblings, neighborhood, or in the literal infrastructure. But this may propel you to go explore further out. The summer is a summer of reinvention. It may be hard to feel your shine during this time, but you need some time to hibernate and rebirth.
virgo:
reflection - in 2022, you had to let go of communications, some neighborhoods, and some ways you think about yourself. in exchange, you experienced a deep longing for exploration. you got gifts in terms of relationships, companionship, and learning to let go of control, while also looking at things realistically. you also got a taste of what it means to courageously merge with someone else and face the ending of the self.
preparations for 2023: savor more intimacy, more agreements to take care of one another. Savor the great outdoors, and opportunities to travel. You will learn some hard lessons around relationships this year, learning how to be responsible to others. You will also begin a long chapter in what it means to take care of your body and mind, to see that both have demands. It may be a less abundant time in terms of what you make for yourself, but on the flip side, you can receive lots of gifts and support when you’re open to interdepency.
libra:
reflection - in 2022, your relationship to possession and ownership had to change. You needed to let go of some values that didn’t feel right anymore and allow for others to come in and help you, rather than holding it down yourself. Perhaps you also had to release something you were holding onto in a relationship. You were able to experience re-orienting into your body and healing, and then you had brave encounters in the world that reminded you of your passion for love.
preparations for 2023: savor adventures with loved ones, taking risks in relationships, exploring passion. Savor long strolls through gardens discussing each other’s secrets. Savor collaborations that bring in money and a feeling of plenty. Prepare that you may be busy. Get something to organize your files or paperwork. Most importantly, prepare that the healing process requires you to get a little lost and a little creative. Romance, creativity, the realm of children is changing drastically in a long process, but it begins next spring. You might say goodbye to a hairstyle, a wardrobe, or your current body image to allow yourself to also experience more freedom in relationships. A friend group may need realignment this summer.
scorpio:
reflection - in 2022, you had to let go of a version of yourself. you had to feel a grayness come over you, to allow for other things to emerge. Instead, you saw the pieces you could not feel in yourself come out in communion with others. you experienced sweetness in your emotionality and compassion that came out in romance, creativity, art and playtime, and then you saw yourself with so much energy and drive to get to work and get moving. Thank you for all your work.
preparations for 2023, all in the vein of savoring and preserving: savor your drive to get things done, the energy coursing through your body. Savor dance partners, one-on-one friendship, and collaborations that flow. Prepare that romance, play, and all childbearing will be relatively stunted and will ask for you to pay your respects. Big change comes at the home front. It’s a longer-lasting change that won’t knock everything down just yet, but just get ready. Things will need to give way in your subconscious to make space for the paths you’re forging. If there’s something you want to negotiate at work, with a boss, the summer might make it happen, but will demand you get clear on what you want.
sagittarius:
reflection - in 2022, you had to release control. you had to face a loneliness that just would not release you. in the same vein, you felt the unrelenting tide of work, health, back to the grind, more work. you got to experience the sweet waters of home, of returning to your origin, and then you got to experience the spice and heat of romance and creativity too.
preparations for 2023, all in the vein of savoring and preserving: Savor more romance, more creativity, more games, more spontaneous dates and going after what you want. Savor getting deeper into the work. Savor finding your pace. Savor caring for your body. Home is going to call for you, not politely, but howling. Brace for some big changes in how you envision community, maybe even on the internet. Some friendship endings will be inevitable, but you’ll find a joy in yourself that tides you over. Travel might be a bit complicated this summer.
capricorn:
reflection - in 2022, you lost some friends along the way, or released yourself from certain group affiliations. In the same vein, you experienced baby fever, maybe not for a literal child, but perhaps you whipped yourself into a frenzy for art, romance, and play. you went on some beautiful travels, wrote moving passages of poetry, had healing phone calls, and then made a triumphant and courageous trip home. you did well, you worked hard, you cried when you needed to and let go when it was time.
preparations for 2023, all in the vein of savoring and preserving: Savor homecomings and the undeniable bravery at the bottom of your being. Savor physical touch, materiality, and feasts for the senses. Savor your creative passion and eroticism. Begin sharpening your arrowheads of your beliefs. Preserve your dreams but let the air out. Brace for new changes in the realm of your finances and resources. You are entering a long transformation that will help you see yourself as a source of wealth for your community. Some career shifts and endings will be inevitable, but you will be reground deeper into yourself eventually. I imagine you will have to re-negotiate some contracts and expectations around intimacy this summer.
aquarius:
reflection - this year you had to release a certain relationship you had to work and to authority. But you also made significant inroads in your home/housing life, and that will ground you for new forays. you may have made some big purchases this year, or got an inflow of money, or felt deeply supported by the world around you. You also got to travel in exciting ways. It opened a vector of energy, and you get to carry it with you on the road ahead.
preparations for 2023, all in the vein of savoring and preserving: Savor more journeys, excited communication in all caps and exclamation marks, savor feeling secure at home, savor home-cooked meals. Prepare that you’ll need to account for the money you’ve received and the money you’ve spent. Prepare that if you aren’t being a good steward of resources, you will experience loss more intensely this next year. And prepare that you will change drastically. The universe will want to play extreme makeover with you, playing the long game to help you experience power you’ve never thought possible. Inevitably, some relation to travel, learning and journey will falter for you to ground more in your own knowledge and common sense. Relationships with any collaborators or partners this summer may have their own fair share of complications.
pisces:
reflection - in 2022, you had to give up on some conception of purpose. the journey had to be given up for some more rebuilding at home. you downsized. maybe you retreated into the writing studio rather than into the lecture hall. you got to experience the universe blow kisses to you, in sheer curtains and blurry photos, signs in clouds and socks. The numinous was loud but was also sweet and forgiving. And then you got to make some big moves, maybe big purchases, or gifts. You got to experience what it means to take a risk. You did good and you were giving. Thank you.
preparations for 2023: Savor gifts, invitations to try new things. Savor the nature around you, neighborhood walks, and writing that enlivens your senses. Prepare for a long winter. Prepare for mirrors and reflective surfaces, in which you only seem to see dark circles under your eyes. This year begins a few years of a lot of self-work. You may be plunged into a sense of not knowing what’s going on. Not knowing what’s going on is not the end of knowing. You may have a windfall of money but may lose some partners. Be careful what you put on the line and the summer you will need to examine how you’re taking care of your health and how you’re hustling.